Thursday, August 11, 2011

Happy 1st Birthday Little Miss


It’s the eve of your first birthday and a night much like the day you were born one year ago.

From the moment the nurse said “It’s a girl!” we immediately fell in love with you -- your sweet face, your beautiful eyes, your little mouth, your impossibly small fingers and toes. You were tiny, but mighty, with a ton of personality even then. You were a fighter from the start. You arrived four days early, healthy and strong. We felt fortunate to get to know you as I was anxious to get you out and see you in my arms.

It’s immeasurable, the love we have for you. Our lives have not been the same since you arrived. We’re not the same people; we are better because you’re here. We are better because you inspire us to be good parents, good people.

We marvel at your every change – your first tooth, your first babbles, your first steps. Your funny shrieks and your hearty belly laugh. Your toothy smile. How you can feed yourself. How you can climb the stairs in a flash. We are fascinated by your every move and sound. We look at each other in wonder of this amazing little person we have created. We are astounded how one little person has altered our outlook, our goals, our worldview, and our very souls.

I wish for you a life full of wonder and beauty, love, peace and joy. I will do everything within my means to ensure this happens. I look forward to watching you grow and change from the sweet baby in my arms into a thoughtful, intelligent woman.

I have no wish for this change to happen quickly. Already, a year has passed all too swiftly. It has been the most wonderful, fun, fulfilling year of my life. The days fly by, one mixing with the next. Each night, when I put you to sleep, I wish I could relive the day again, spend it with you once more. I wish the time wouldn’t go so fast, that I could live in slow motion. I am keenly aware that too soon you will be heading to kindergarten with your little backpack, waving at me from the end of the driveway, off to school and away from me.

But until that day, I feel fortunate to spend these years in your company, loving you and helping you learn, helping you to be a good person. Just as you have done for me.

Happy Birthday, little Miss.
Love always,
Mommy

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

-juice

-juice \'jüs\ n suffix: an appendage term used by parents to refer to any type of liquid, especially that intended for adults <mommy-juice = Riesling>; <daddy-juice = Sam Adams>; <go-juice = coffee>; <cow-juice = milk>

I could use some mommy-juice right about now! Little Miss has mommy and daddy needing their own special-juice these days. Now that we're on the move we seem to be moving towards the floor, the edge of furniture and even moving our sippy cup into the roof of our mouth - all of these moves make for a very unhappy, sobbing, weeping, red faced, howling little Miss.  Mommy feels the same way sometimes at work I'm just not allowed to throw a tantrum and keep my job!

The big 01 is 2 days away!! I can't believe it...the thought of that alone makes me need some mommy-juice!

Anyone who didn't get a formal invitation to the bash that would like to crash a 1 year old birthday party for free cake and a ride on a slip and slide is welcome to stop by on Saturday afternoon! We'll have adult-juice for everyone of age!



Saturday, August 6, 2011

We Are WALKING!!

Okay, so I'm seriously over the moon that my little girl is officially in the "walk zone" - she willingly walks without the help of her favorite choo-choo that she just got as an early birthday gift last weekend! If I had known that a little independence would go such a long way I may have rethought allowing her to open her gift early, just kidding...as much as it scares me to death that she's developing so quickly I would be heart broken if she were lagging behind so it's good that she's progressing all on her own, in what the pediatrician refers to as "text book fashion".

She didn't started walking at 9months like some nor will she be resting on her laurels till she's 16months like others, she is what I would consider "just right" - although I fear she'll be running by October and will decide to run head first into the ocean while we're on vacation!!  My heart may stop at that moment and I may return from Myrtle Beach with a permanent tether tied to her!

For now she'll be confined to walking around the house while Daddy and I perform the role of her personal cheer leaders. Today she walked right over to Gammy too...so take that Ginger Rogers!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

On the Move Again...

Part of the Jersey trip was a visit to "Auntie Gwen & Uncle Tony's" house to see them and play with one of her first BBF's Liam...the first boy to ever kiss her - yeah, it's cute now but not so much when she's 13 and he's 15 - then we're going to have to have a little chat!  So on Sunday we stopped to see them and had a mini birthday party to celebrate Liam turning 3 on July 7th and Abbey's pending 1st birthday. The kids exchanged gifts as the adults shared parenting stories some good, some funny some that would bring tears to your eyes! 

Abbey's gift came in perfect time, as soon as we got home Sunday night we couldn't pry her hands from it...and around the house she goes every waking hour these days...to say we LOVE our gift would be an understatement...and to say Mommy loves the fact that I no longer have to hold two little hands as she makes laps around the dinning room table all afternoon is also an understatement! I prefer to sit back and watch her enjoy her independence.

As much as I prefer the "non-mobile" version, I love to see her growing and doing new things too so I'm trying to balance the array of emotions about all her advancements. For now, I'll clap and be a cheerleader.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Jersylicious

Little Miss made her first trip to Jersey this past weekend, while her furry, four legged sister got to spend a little quality time with gammy & papa.

This was Abbey on the way down to Jersey:

In true Jersey style she played in the pool, lounged in the sun, caught a concert, ate too much, stayed up late and got way too frisky with the boys! Thankfully there was no drinking, driving, flashing or fighting (okay there was one naked swim in the pool but we were in Jersey, not on the Jersey shore. 

As I sat back and watched her laugh, giggle, smile, jabber, and ultimately win the hearts of all around her I found myself in continued awe. She was truly the hit of the party.

This was Abbey on the way home from Jersey:
Needless to say, we party hard...we crash hard! Thanks to Jersey for the great time - Good nite and we'll see you next trip!

Friday, July 29, 2011

Adjustment Bureau

With another busy weekend looming I had to take a little time to appreciate the break in the ridiculously hot weather as well as a little time to appreciate the cuteness that is Miss Abbey.  She's been experiencing a little morning meltdown action this past week and with Mommy at a new job with one hell of a commute, I've been experiencing a little afternoon meltdown myself so we're quite the pair. I think I may have been institutionalized after 8+ years at the Spec and I know little Miss is missing the peeps she spent so much time with the first 8 months of her life outside of home.  Where's the Adjustment Bureau when you need the huh?

Thankfully Daddy's around to pick little Miss up from daycare and entertain us both in the evenings. Just like everything else in life, we ladies require a little time to adjust. 

So while we're working through our "stranger danger" phase we'll take some time to play in the yard...thankfully we're easily distracted!
 

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Playin Around

Hi there, My name is Abbey and I came to play...so get ready
You want some of this? Huh do ya punk?
I know I'm cute - seriously, you want a piece of me?
Okay, that's all I've got...playing takes it right out of me.
Just me and my dog...fighting for the same toy
Ha - I win!
I look cuter chewing this toy anyway.
Daddy, I have to win...
It's not funny, I can't have people seeing me lose...you need to let me win!
Whew, between BonBon and Daddy I'm beat, but I've got my toy.
Maybe just a little energy left to taunt the dog...
Yup, always enough energy to show BonBon who's boss!

Just another day in Abbey's world. Anyone feel like stopping by to try and wear this kid out? I'd like to bottle up this energy production...We could retire - seriously...where does it come from? 

Monday, July 25, 2011

No Goodbyes

It didn't really feel like it was over until this weekend - I think until then I felt like I was on vacation or something but I finally feel like the end of an era has come.  So many amazing people have blessed my life and without GlobalSpec there would be no Michael and I, and no Abbey Jean so here's to all the great things that have come from the last 8+ years - I can only imagine what will happen in the next 8+!

 
No good party happens without a cocktail :-)
 Yes, little Miss was there to share in the festivities, just not the booze!

 Since she was eating the furniture we opted to feed her...


Needless to say, she enjoyed her dinner!
 Which allowed the grown-ups to enjoy our cocktails...
 Then it was playtime and time to meet and greet!

 Auntie Amanda can hang out with me anytime!
 And, to the couple who founded GlobalSpec - thank you for helping make our lives today what they are. Your vision for a product, your drive to make it a successful business and ultimately your choice in Michael and I as employees has forever changed our lives! Thank you John & Andi!

I'll miss the idea of what GlobalSpec once stood for, the potential it once had, I'll miss the everyday interaction with people I consider extended family but you're all an amazing part of my life that I'll be caring with me always, this is not goodbye...but rather, thank you for giving me so much that I can take with me!

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Zero to Hot Mess In...

37 seconds flat, that's the time it takes for my kid to go from clean and cute to holy hot mess cheese head. 

Little Miss's first day at her new daycare went very well for her...however, with half her usual nap, the evening at home with Mommy & Daddy did not go as well. Dinner was early, fast and furious resulting in what one could only describe as a catastrophic failure of utensils. Equipped with her hands, a poor sense of direction from hand-to-mouth and a tray full of mac-n-cheese - little Miss set out to decimate her dinner.

I have yet to figure out how something so small makes such a big mess, but I have to say it's a good things she's cute!
Abbey before dinner....
 Abbey After Dinner...(this picture does not do it justice) the child had mac-n-cheese in her hair, her ear and in every crack and crevice in between...
After a good bath and some serious scrubbing little Miss was back to her squeaky clean, cute little self.  Too bad she was still over tired and miserable so she went directly to bed at 6:45pm...to fall asleep at 7:45pm...the last few days of daycare have been MUCH better!!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Bugs

I'm not talking about those nasty little blood suckers occupying my backyard, though this year it seems that those bugs should get some kind of award for their sheer viciousness (if the women of Desperate housewives can win an Emmy these blood suckers should get a little notoriety), no I'm talking about our first born little girl, BonBon.  She doesn't get the same kind of "props" that she used to pre-Abbey so I find it necessary every now and again to show her a little literary love.
Being my "first born" I still have a love for this little four legged bundle of furry joy that still verges on unhealthy pet love.  I find myself shopping for dog stuff just as frequently as I shop for baby stuff which means I should be working a second job just so I can buy the occasional Old Navy $1 lip-flops for myself! Amongst all the pictures of little Miss, Daddy also still manages to capture his saddle bag having, pouty lipped princess we loving refer to as "bugs"...amongst other things.

Have I mentioned just how much I love his damn dog? This is the same dog that, when sick, will lay beside you for days on end only getting up to pee when she knows you're fast asleep. While I was pregnant, she would lay in my lap or next to my lap once the bump got too big, and upon being kicked by the little nudger, aka Abbey, would sign, shift her weight and go right back to sleep.
I think we are drawn to dogs because they are the uninhibited creatures we might be if we weren't certain we knew better.  They fight for honor at the first challenge, make love with no moral restraint, and they do not for all their marvelous instincts appear to know about death.  Being such wonderfully uncomplicated beings, they need us to do their worrying.  ~George Bird Evans, Troubles with Bird Dogs

Monday, July 18, 2011

LIttle Miss is Baptized

I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted what I asked of Him. -- Samuel 1:27  
 
To say that little Miss was happy to be baptized might be an understatement...Her smile was infectious this past Sunday while she celebrated her big day with her biggest fans.  She looked like the little princess she is and made Mommy well up when I saw her all dressed up. Gammy & Papa supplied the cultured pearl earrings and Mommy & Daddy supplied the diamonds - let's just say she was "blinged out."

Surrounded by those who love her and most importantly those who will support her through this life whether it be spiritually, emotionally, and/or financially (any takers?), she smiled and babbled through the service making the rest of us snicker when we should have had our heads bowed in prayer...I know the good lord will understand - she's just too irresistible!!

Thanks to everyone who was there to celebrate and share this special day with us.  So here's to our little miracle, a true blessing in so many ways - some of my favorite pics...

You are the One who put me together inside my mother's body, and I praise You because of the wonderful way You created me. Everything You do is marvelous! Of this I have no doubt. -- Psalm 139:13-14